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7 Tips For Cooking Up Chemistry Through Conversation

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When you look for a mate, what are the things you look for? You may say kindness, sensitivity and intelligence, but let’s face it– physical attraction ranks near the top…for everyone. A potential partner’s looks, if we’re being up front here, can be a deal breaker for the average person. 

Some people are just plain beautiful by society’s standards. That’s the top ten percent of us. Everyone else has to work with what they’ve got. Count me among those folks. I learned fairly early on that I wasn’t a winner in the looks lottery — which was fine. Why? Because it forced to me to become a more well-rounded personality in order to compete with the pretty boys and the jocks. And to my surprise, I was able to hold my own.

While you can’t force attraction, there are definitely some things you can do to cultivate it. Personality and conversation are dramatically under-appreciated tools in the toolkit of finding a mate. Not sure how to fine-tune your skills? Here are 7 tips to help you increase your odds of cooking up that nebulous thing called chemistry.

Be confident: Speak with simple, healthy and sexy confidence — not arrogance or self-centeredness. Nothing goes any further than a “hello” if you come off as scared or timid. Men and women alike are turned off by it. Don’t even give yourself time to think about what could go wrong or how the other person may react to you. Just be you. For the right person that’s good enough.

Make eye contact: Don’t stare through the other person like you’re in a hypnotic trance, but make sure eye contact is consistent. Show that you’re engaged and interested.


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